She's getting so hard to buy for because she really doesnt "want" anything. She's completely content with what she already has (there's a great lesson for me to learn). So, as I did for my mom, I made her a "memory plate" of my Grandfather, her husband. I really think she enjoyed it. As soon as she saw the pictures she started telling the stories that went along with each of them. I had brought my voice recorder along so I decided to interview her shortly after this photo was taken. There was a lot of things that she couldn't remember anymore, but there were several stories that she still did. I was thankful for the opportunity to record in her own words, a few parts of her life.
Grandma opening her card. That sweater she's wearing takes me back to my childhood. She wore it all the time while I was growing up. I can't believe it's still in good enough shape to continue wearing. Funny how a simple piece of clothing can bring back so many memories.
Grandma and her memory plate. I know she misses my Grandpa so much and it hurts me when I hear her talking about going to be with him soon. Although I know that families can be together forever and that I'll see her again once she's gone, the thought of her not being here is too much for me... though if I'd been without my husband for 23 yrs, I'd probably want to return to him as well. What a great reunion that will be!
Me and my Grandma. I love her so much!
Gabers and his Great Grandma. She has a hard time remembering Gabe's name but she loves him just as much as the other great grandchildren. There's just starting to be so many that she can't keep their names straight. But she always remembers that his middle name is Wilton, after my Grandpa, George Wilton McCrone. She was very happy when Gabe was born and I told her we named him after Grandpa. It was very special to her.
Hannah and Great Grandma. Many times when my Grandma sees Hannah she always says, "You know, you look like a Miller...dark hair, dark eyes"...then she stops and corrects herself and says, "well, I suppose that's because you are a Miller." My Grandmother has always LOVED Greg and she was thrilled that his last name was Miller, since that's her maiden name. So now, she just likes to retell that "you look like a Miller" thing to Hannah, but I think she doesn't realize that she's done it a hundred times before. Her memory isn't what it used to be.
I hope that there will be many more Christmases with my Grandma but she doesn't seem to think so. This December 5th, she'll be 84 years old.



